My Relationship with my Brethren and Sisters
“Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.” Gal 6:2
What does this mean in practical terms?
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I must forgive any offence against myself completely for God will not forgive me unless I forgive others. | Matt 18:21-22, 35; Eph 4:31-32 |
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I must show love and care towards my brethren and sisters in Christ with sincerity and from a pure heart. | John 13:34; Rom 12:10; Eph 5:2; 1Thess 4:9-10; 1Pet 1:22; 1Pet 4:8; 1John 3:14-19 |
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Christ is our head, we have no leader but him, therefore I must be self effacing and humble in my relationships with brethren and sisters, being willing to serve following Christ’s example. | Matt 23:9-12; Luke 22:26-27; John 13:13-17 |
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If there is a rift in the relationship that I have with brethren and sisters then I must to the best of my ability seek reconciliation and be willing to forgive just as God forgives me. | Matt 5:24; Matt 18:26-35; Col 3:12-13; 1Pet 4:8 |
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If I learn that a brother or sister is committing sin then I must not talk about it to others, but must talk to that person directly and attempt turning that person back to the right path. | Matt 18:15; Gal 6:1; Jas 5:19-20 |
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I must not judge, hold grudges nor condemn any of my brethren and sisters. | Matt 7:1-5; Rom 14:11-13; 1Cor 4:5; Jas 4:11-12 |
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If I see or hear about a brother or sister in need then it is my duty to help if I can. | Acts 20:35; Rom 12:13; Jas 2:15-16; 1John 3:16-17 |
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I must always seek the welfare of my brethren and sisters and help to carry any burdens they may have. | 1Cor 10:24; Phil 2:4; Gal 6:2 |
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It is important that I do or say nothing that could be a stumbling block to another brother or sister. | Matt 18:6; Rom 14:13,21; 1Cor 8:13 |
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It is important that my brethren and sisters feel able to trust and confide faults in me and I in them. | James 5:14-16 |
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It is important that I am of one mind with my brethren and sisters on spiritual matters and seek those things that lead to peace. | Rom 14:19; 1Cor 1:10; 2Cor 13:11; 1Pet 3:8-9 |
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I must be careful not to be angry without just cause and if upset or angry not to let this be a cause of sin. | Matt 5:22; Eph 4:26; Col 3:8 |